I think part of what defines love is its ability to take so many different forms.
There is grand love - passionate, toe curling, and head spinning love. There is small love. The kind that passes you on the street, brushes your shoulder on the bus, or maybe sticks to the bottom of a strangers shoe. There is a complicated love, where you become lost in the way someone says your name and it makes you forget how to pronounce yourself. There is revolutionary love, which makes people unzip themselves. It makes you get little naked or a little undone but you will also grow through each other. There will be ugly love. One that wears you, forgets you, and leaves you broken. There will be love hidden in the seams of joy (do not let that go unnoticed). But my favourite kind of love is the steady one. It makes you a home when the world gets crazy and lets you trust its resiliency. It will take your hand and absorb all that life shit. The best love is like any healthy habit that you possess, whether it be eating your vegetables or remembering to take your meds. It will hold up your body without you even knowing. It will be good for you.